Whose
Therapy is it Anyway?
Recognizing Coercion and Control in Therapy |
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Recently I have
edited and written chapters in the critically acclaimed book Power
Games: Influence, Persuasion and Indoctrination in Psychotherapy
Training. This book is a description of the structures, methods
and applications of dictatorial and authoritarian training many
therapists experience. As with any such doctrinaire approaches,
there are causalities strewn along the way. Sometimes they are the
therapists and all too often they are the people these therapists
see in their practice. Unless mental health professionals are able
to titrate, question, challenge and mute the misuse of power I describe,
the services they offer are contaminated by the same fundamentalist,
inflexible thinking.
The book I am currently writing, Whose Therapy is it Anyway describes
patients experiences and revels some of the means by which therapists
insist upon what is proper, healthy and worthy. The aims, hopes
and dreams of patients are upended and dismissed if not to the liking
of the therapist. Therapy is no longer, but instead is replaced
by re-education or indoctrination.
So what are some of the signs to watch for?
- An aggressive,
demanding and righteous stance by the therapist spells trouble.
Such a stance is often characterized by challenge, impatience
and at times ridicule.
- The provocative
use of language which is demeaning and dismissive has no place
in psychotherapy. The purpose of such language is to precipitate
a crisis so the patient becomes more amenable to change as directed
by the therapist.
- Sessions
dominated by what the therapist deems important, and any contrary
views that might challenge this dominance are interpreted as resistance
(non- cooperation with the therapy process) or more dangerously
as self-indulgence, are potentially terribly harmful.
- A heightened
emotional quality to the therapy hour is to be viewed with caution.
Feelings can be inflamed with a "more is better" expectation.
Thinking, considering, reflecting are inimical to emotional re-experiencing.
- The use
of touch to soothe the patient after or during an emotional discharge
or difficult session often reflects a blurring of appropriate
boundaries. Such techniques foster dependency and compliance.
The attitude seems to be "there, there now that wasn't so
bad was it? And daddy (or mommy) still loves you."
- Personal
language is stolen. Certain words or phrases that reflect complexity,
metaphor, symbolism, abstraction, or challenge the theoretical
stance of the therapist, are banished. Self assertion is apparently
encouraged but contained within narrow, rigid boundaries i.e.,
"you can disagree with me if I agree that you can disagree."
Such therapy is a confusing mix of smoke and mirrors, ripe with
contradiction and desperately driven by the therapist’s
need to be right and in control.
If you, the
reader have additional examples or personal experiences you wish
to share, please email me
or send a letter to my
office. I will keep any such correspondence strictly confidential.
Finally, anyone in or contemplating therapy may want to remember
that it is first and foremost your therapy.
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